Monday, March 21, 2011

K3 visa wife in Vietnam / girlfriend in the state

K3 visa wife in Vietnam / girlfriend in the state?
I have a cousine who's going to file for a K3 visa for his wife who live in vietnam. But in the state he have a girlfriend and she's pregnant. Do you think they'll give him a heard time? And would it be denied or what? Or should he not even wast his time and money? He's a immigrants and doesn't have citizenship! Shes going to file him as the father and ask for child support.
Immigration - 3 Answers
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Having a pregnant girlfriend in the US will not make any difference. The only real investigation that will be done is of his wife. As long as he's a US citizen no in depth investigation is done.
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I don't see how it would make a difference. They would not ask if you had a pregnant girlfriend, so why volunteer that information. Shame on you, by the way.
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Bigamy





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Monday, March 14, 2011

Are we making the same mistakes in Iraq that we made in Vietnam

Are we making the same mistakes in Iraq that we made in Vietnam?
I would like to hear from those that lived during Vietnam and can draw similarities and contrasts.
Military - 9 Answers
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No we're not. Our biggest mistake in Nam was sending over troops a little at a time. Instead of doing what we did in Iraq. We should have went in enmass and overwhelmed them and walked righ into Hanoi. Whats wrong now. Is the cleaning up and the outside influence. The locals arent fighting its other arabs. We also need to stop we kicked your ass but we'll pay for the damage mentality.
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I dont think it is possible to compare the two. Iraq has alot more support then Vietnam did. But i just dont think you can compare the two wars at all.
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Im just a kid but i took history class and i think the way we are handling iraq is very much like vietnam. We stepped in the middle of something that was none of our bussiness to step into and we are losing lifes everyday.
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My father was in Nam and I've bee to Iraq twice. They are not the same. Nam was run by the "Wiz Kids" who though technology was the one thing that was needed to win a war. They also only cared about body counts. This war is about setting people free and oil. I'll admit that but we dont care as much about body counts now and the Generals run the war not some punk @ss college kid who's never seen war. and has no idea whats going on in the battlefield.
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Three lessons that we DIDN'T LEARN in Vietnam.... 1) You can't win a war based on trumped up charges. 2) The United States doesn't exactly have the "guerilla" thing down very well. 3) You can't win other peoples civil wars for them. Sound Familiar.
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Yes we only went into Iraq to stop the spread of Communism, we brutalized the Iraqi people and took away their only housing to set up internment camps, and we are not trying at all to set up a decent government because of the overwhelming Communist threat in Iraq. yup sure is exactly like Vietnam *sarcasm* However, people still want to pull out immediately exactly like we did in Vietnam stranding our Allies and the Free Iraqis. And the liberals seem to think the conservatives didn't learn anything from Vietnam.
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No we are not. The Vietnam war was completely different from the war in Iraq. In Vietnam we were trying to defend one nation from invasion and conquest by a neighboring nation. In Iraq we are nurturing one of the world's newest democracies. The Iraqi people have voted for democracy - why don't you listen to them?
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Yes! Although we are trying to 'free' them in Iraq ( and in Nam), we are looking at it trough a democracy approach, and by trying to change their gov to democracy, they probably feel as if we were trying to take their culture away. Also it was not our right nor our business in the first place to invade. If a country wants to be communist or ruled by a dictator that's there problem NOT ours. We can't fix every problem in the world, when we hardly fix our own. Now that the damage has been done it is best i think, if we leave Iraq, but give them the choice of the life they wish to live and help later if they desire. A person can not fix the world, when he himself is torn.
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One person said we "had no business in Vietnam". How about the SEATO treaty? If you've read your Constitution you see "treaties" are the supreme law of this land. However here's what it all came down to: It was a war between wills, we did not equal their political will. So we Vietnamized. We trained and equipped their Army to be like ours. If you lived in those times you'll remember all the young Vietnamese officers in our airports, travelling to and fro to flight school etc. Once we had trained and equipped their Army to be like ours (a very expensive system) they did ok. The last time they encountered the North Vietnamese they kicked their ass(Easter Offensive 1972). However shortly thereafter our Congress cut their funding and renigged on promises of air support. All the while the Soviet Union and Red China stepped up their financial support of North Vietnam. In this phase ,1975 the ARVN collasped. I've talked to several Vietnamese officers who survived 1975, it was impossible to even get their choppers in the air without getting knocked down by SAM's. Many people like to believe that the ARVN didn't want to fight. However the ARVN lost over 500,000 men (twice our WWII losses). I guess that's not good enough for some chickenhawks.Guess what? I served in Vietnam in the Infantry and what I see talked about regarding Vietnam is a mixture of myth and BS.Is Iraq like Vietnam? Fortunately for todays youth they'll never find out. There is no draft anymore and little desire to serve.
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The only similarity is that the media are working against the troops





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Monday, March 7, 2011

I want to live in a different country

I want to live in a different country?
In my whole life I live in Vietnam for about 9 years and USA for about 10 years so now i want to live in Japan. To me, live in the same place for a your whole life is really boring and I want to like in different country. So what do I need to live in Japan?( tips will be helpful too)
Immigration - 5 Answers
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If someone in your family was born or lived in japan you might have citizen ship already but if no one your related to lives there then you will have to go through the whole immigration process which i never done before Sorry :(
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You will find that Japanese citizenship is almost impossible to attain. Your best hope is for permission to live and work there.
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You r right my friend. Sometimes we need a little change. Live in Japan, you need to know how to speak Japanese, and local culture there. Japanese are very ethical, they think japan everything is much much better than any other countries, they think they are higher than anybody else. So, be ready to take all the good moments and sad moments, be ready to hear that laugh at you, be ready to look after yourself. especially if you are a girl, be careful of people who want you to be a porn actress, because in Japan, men are animals.
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You need to get a sponsor to live in a country or find a partner on the internet willing to accommodate you.
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Remember there is no place like America. Just because the US gave you citizenship does not mean other countries will do the same. Go to Japan and visit. You will not be able to obtain a citizenship. This may help you.. I am thinking of retiring to the Philippines. I can not get a Philippines citizen nor do I want to. What i can do is keep renewing my visa up to one year. After one year I must leave the country for one day. So what you do is leave the country for one day and come back and you\re good for one more year.





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Tuesday, March 1, 2011

I'm a 19 year old who needs a kidney transplant, can my relatives from Vietnam come to the U.S. to donate

I'm a 19 year old who needs a kidney transplant, can my relatives from Vietnam come to the U.S. to donate?
I was diagnosed with lupus last summer and it completely destroyed my kidneys. As a result, I've had to be on hemodialysis for over a year now. My parents wanted to donate a kidney to me but they were denied because of medical reasons: dad has hypertension and mom is pre-diabetic. My only other relative is my brother, but he's only 17. I have no other relatives living in the U.S., but I have plenty who live in Vietnam. My aunt, uncles, and cousins have offered to donate, but I'm not clear what the process is like for someone wanting to acquire a visa in this situation. Please help with more information. Thank you.
Immigration - 7 Answers
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I don't know what the law is regarding aliens coming to this country to donate organs, but if it's the only way to help you, I imagine they would go for it. However, you will definitely need a letter (or letters) from your medical team. My mother-in-law from the Philippines was just granted a visa to go to the USA to visit her ailing brother. The doctor wrote a letter to the immigration department stating that the brother was too ill to go to the Phils, so she should be allowed to come here. I hope everything works out for you!
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It would be best to determine if any of the relatives would be a match before attempting to get a visa. If one of them is a match, they can apply for a nonimmigrant visa at the nearest US embassy in Hanoi or Ho Chi Minh. Contact information for the two are at the sites below. If it is an emergency, the application can be expedited.
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Isn't it easier to go back to Vietnam and have that transplant??? Why bother to bring people over?
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Call immigration. Are you a citizen? There is something about 'undue hardship for a citizen' that might help, but you really need to contact immigration.
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yes
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if you get your medical team to fill out the reqiured forms and supporting literature then there should be no problem with your brother entering the us because the reason is one of extenuating circumstances-and he even may be given leave to stay to help you to recuperate. good luck with your request and i hope it works out for you.
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